How It Works Behind The Scenes...

Explained by The Matchmakers​

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Working with Matchmakers In The City is definitely a love-life changing decision, and we are so excited that you are thinking of working with our team of top Matchmakers.  When you sign up for a Priority Membership (beginning at $10,000), the first thing that you do is your in-person Best Match Interview and Personality Assessment with one of your Matchmakers.  During this in-depth, private, one-on-one meeting with your Matchmaker, she will learn all about you: from who you find attractive in the public eye, to your favorite travel memories, to how many children you want to have.

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After your Best Match Interview and Personality Assessment, we have an internal preparation phase where we assess and then aggregate all of the potential matches for you as a team.  We identify key character and personality traits that would compliment yours, outline the physical aesthetic that you find attractive, and create a prototype of what an ideal partner would be based on our analysis, observations, and assessments.  We look at all of these different qualities and then confer with our team to develop a plan of action to find what we are looking for.

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Depending on the Priority Member who we are scouting for, our team goes to targeted events around town (i.e. a Lawyers and Philharmonic Society event, a Doctors Without Borders Event, a Fashion Week Show, etc.), all with the sole purpose of finding and meeting the attractive, successful, single men and women who fit within the parameters of our ideal match for you.

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In addition to having an in-house recruitment element of our jobs, the Matchmaking industry is extremely tight-knit and collaborative, and we partner with a number of the top Matchmakers around the world.  We notify our partners of what we are looking for, and see if their Clients fit the bill.  Of course, we also do an in depth search into our internal private database of Members (both Priority and Basic) to see if your match is already doing a membership with us!

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Once we have a number of prospects lined up for interviews, the actual matchmaking begins!  We interview, background check, and social media check each Member, and ultimately select your matches based on this process.  It’s absolutely a team effort, a methodical process, and one that is as old-school as it gets.

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Once we have made our selection of your best match, we plan every detail of the date.  If you are anything like our Members, you are a busy person, so we take care of selecting a location and cross referencing your schedules so that you do not have to go back and forth with each other.  Once we have made all of the preparations, you will meet your match and enjoy getting to know each other!  After each one of your dates, you will have a private Date Coaching meeting with one of your Matchmakers to make sure that we are troubleshooting everything throughout your experience with us.  We are on your team and are always making sure that your feedback is being heard and implemented as we select your upcoming matches.  We also love to consult you throughout the process; we may get important feedback from one of your matches that may help you to have more successful dates as we move forward.  All of the Matchmakers here are compassionate, caring, and truly have your best interest in mind.

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We are excited to meet you.  We know that this is a new and different way of doing things, but after 12+ years in business, countless marriages, and even a number of Matchmakers In The City babies, we know that this works. 

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